heart-rending

if something causes anguish or deep distress it is said to be heart-rending, (not heart-wrenching or heart-rendering). many people seem to confuse the term gut-wrenching (extremely distressing or unpleasant - twisting the stomach) with the term heart-rending (arousing deep sympathy - tearing the heart) to get heart-wrenching, and even possibly gut-rending. heart-rendering, on the other hand, would logically be the process of melting the fat off the heart by heating -- not the same at all!

i'm sure everyone must have experienced dealing with this matter. the causes can be anything from the person that u luv, yr pets, family members and etc. but when we talk bout heart-rending... the 1st thing that will pop up in our mind is... LOVE! am i rite ?? ermmm.. let see whether hv i ever had this kind of experience?? of coz i do.. how many times ?? 1.. 2.. 3... 4.. well cant be counted tho hahahaaa

and everytime i recall about my past experience, i must be laughing out loud wakakakaaa. and i cant imagine myself was crying like a baby when dealing with it. sometimes i feel stupid but in other way, i thanks to it also coz it make me grown up and become more mature. alhamdullillah, i'm happy with my current situation. life treat me well. so far so good and so good so far !! :) let bygone be bygone... close book